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Coaching Tip 12 – Remember Their Story

The Know Their Story initiative has been all about learning to notice and love the people around you. It’s about stepping into conversations where others feel safe enough to share deeply with you—not just so you can see if the door is open to share the gospel, but because you...
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Coaching Tip 11 – You’re not in this alone.

In Paul’s letter to the Romans, he wrote something surprisingly humble and deeply insightful: “For I long to see you so that I may impart some spiritual gift to you that you may be established; that is, that I may be encouraged together with you while among you, each of...
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Coaching Tip 10 – Listen with love, respond with Grace.

This year, you’re likely to meet people who want to share their stories—but who may have no interest in hearing the gospel. Some of those stories will celebrate sin. Some will reflect deep spiritual confusion or even hostility toward truth. And some may genuinely offend you. So what do we...
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Coaching Tip 9 – Let Kindness Be Your First Word.

When Jesus sent out His disciples, He gave them this instruction: “Be wise as serpents and innocent as doves” (Matthew 10:16). It’s a beautiful pairing of intentionality and character. Being wise as serpents means being thoughtful, discerning, and strategic about how we engage with the people around us. It reminds...
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Coaching Tip 8 – Always remember to be “salt and light.”

In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus said: “You are the salt of the earth… You are the light of the world… let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 5:13-16) It’s easy...
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Coaching Tip 7 – What’s in Your Back Pocket? Use “bridge” questions to go deeper.

Last week, we talked about having simple conversation starters—or “handshakes”—ready in your back pocket to break the ice. This week, we’re focusing on the next step: “bridge” questions—the kind that help move a conversation from surface-level to something deeper and more meaningful. I’ve found that bridge questions tend to fall...
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Coaching Tip 6 – What’s in Your Back Pocket? Have some common conversation starters ready.

One of the most helpful tools in personal evangelism is having a few good questions “in your back pocket.” These are the questions you can pull out at the right moment—one type breaks the ice and opens a conversation, while the other helps move the conversation to a deeper, more...
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Coaching Tip 5 – Make Space for Meaningful Moments, Let God Interrupt Your Plans

The number one reason I don’t initiate conversations with strangers isn’t that I think they’re too busy. It’s not because I’ve tried and been ignored too many times. It’s not even because I can’t think of something warm and friendly to say. It’s because I’m too busy. I rush from...
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Coaching Tip 4 – Begin to Notice the People Around You

Colossians 4:5 says, “Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity.” Making the most of an opportunity doesn’t always mean diving into a deep conversation or sharing the gospel immediately. Sometimes, it’s as simple as offering a warm smile, speaking a kind word, or asking a...
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Coaching Tip 3 – Start with Prayer, Pray for Open Doors

Colossians 4:2 urges us to “devote ourselves to prayer.” But what exactly should we pray for? Colossians 4:3 provides a clear answer: pray for open doors for the gospel. When someone shares a personal story with you, they are opening a door into their life. These moments are opportunities to...
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Coaching Tip 2 – Start with the People You Already Know

One of the goals of “Know Their Story” is to help us, as a church, grow more comfortable initiating meaningful conversations with both acquaintances and strangers. Every day, we cross paths with people who need to experience God’s love and hear the good news about Jesus. But in our eagerness...
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Coaching Tip 1 – Connect with one of Bethany’s Outreach Ministry Teams

This year, we’re embarking on an incredible journey — to hear 2,000 new stories in our community. Everyone has a story, and as a church, we believe that truly listening, engaging, and caring for others is a key step in sharing God’s love. That’s why we’re launching the “Know Their...
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New York 2024 – July 20

Today is our travel day. We have a group that left at around 7am and another group that flew out at around 9am. My group had a pretty smooth trip home, but the other group had some challenges as some important items didn’t arrive when expected in Peoria when the...
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New York 2024 – July 19

This was our final day ministering in NYC. We went to Central Park. While we were in Central park we took a little time to visit Trump tower and the Plaza hotel where Kevin McCallister spent so much of his Christmas vacation back in 1992 (movie reference!). Sully and I...
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New York 2024 – July 18

A story wall is an invitation to those who are passing by to come and write out a short story from their lives and literally nail it to a wall. It can be a story of struggles and obstacles. It could be a story from childhood. It could even be...
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